To make a long story short - I had to cancel all of our arrangements (except our photographer and minister and my dress.)
Found out two weeks after I ordered my dress (Which could not be cancelled) that I was losing my job - not just me but my entire department.
We cancelled everything and then his parents didn't want us to get married until next year (irrelevant I suppose because we're doing this anyway).
We're going to get married either on the deck in our back yard or in front of the fireplace (hoping it doesn't rain). We're inviting just a few people and then inviting those and possibly more to the reception. As far as reception goes - we're going to find a resturant with a party room so we can have our little receiption.
What are some nice places that I can call and see if they can accomodate. It's not going to be over 25 people I don't think, if it is - not much over that number.
Also - is it ok if I invite people to the 'reception' who were planning on coming but were alerted the wedding was cancelled due to the fact I was losing my job. I still want to include some people but our house isn't that big if it has to be inside.
Any ideas - comments - etc are welcome - just wanting to know what to do.
We decided we were going to get married because it's not the wedding itself that really matters that much - but it's the lifetime after that matters. We did want to include some people though