I started to mention this on another thread so here's my issue. I want to use James Byrd Photography for my pictures and they are booked on my day. I have already set everything else up with all the other vendors for that day but I can't find another photographer that takes the type of pictures like they do. So I'm thinking of moving my day so I can have my photographer and everyone thinks I'm being ridiculous because of the money I'll be losing in deposits. But it's really, really important to me. Any advice?