My FI and I are leaning towards not having a flower girl or ring bearer because we both have nieces and nephews (7 total) that are all in the same age range. We are equally close with all of them, so we really can't choose between them and we don't want to make anyone feel left out. We are fine with it, but my mom is bummed and I think some other family members are too, but just haven't said anything yet. We aren't having kids at our wedding, except for our nieces and nephews, so they'll still be there for pictures and stuff. Anyone else choose not to have a FG or RB? If so, were people upset? ORDid anyone choose a FG and RB and leave people out? If so, any hurt feelings?