Hello!
I'm Diane and my fiance is Tom and we're getting married next December!
I am kind of panicking because I've/we've got so many "demands."
First, we want to be married in a Catholic Church with a Rabbi co-officiating. Of course, my family is Conservative/Orthodox, so none of the arabbis we know will do it or even refer us, and Tom (the Catholic) isn't from the area so he doesn't know any priests in NY at all. Any help you can give us would be wonderfully appreciated!
Second, We're poor, with big families. Not poor, per se, but it's seeming like the minimum per-person pricing (even for a buffet) is about $100! And we're going to be inviting 300 people. I don't even know what our budget is (my parents are being wonderful and taking care of everything) but they're still paying for Sandy repairs and I don't want to ask *that* much from them. Has anyone found really great deals?
Also, we need to get married in December, because I'm in grad school and only have the Christmas break free.
And I'm vegan, so any tips on the best vegan wedding cakes would be lovely!
Thanks so much,
Diane