SO my FI's brother decided to text him today - mind you he had a falling out with his brother last September after their mother had gotten sick and they haven't spoke since.
They have a 3yr old son. Apparently the world shifted on its axis when this child was born because they do nothing and go nowhwere without him. I get that. I come from a large family and between friends and family everyone has children. We had to make the no children rule for 2 reasons: A) I don't feel children belong at a wedding
for budget reasons across the board we had to say no.
I nicely put the response card where you could not mistake who was invited. The envelope was addressed to the brother and sister in law and inside the card it read.....
2 seats have been reserved for you.I think the brother is setting my FI up for another family feud and for the life of me don't know why he's even bothering to question it! So the text message read:
Please let us know if we can bring Joey to your wedding? Thank you.
I think the brother is pushing my FI to say Um no your son isnt ivinted jerk off because he would've been listed on the envelope!
As you can tell I have an incredible disdain for his brother. He's a bully. He uses his son as a pawn for everything. Don't get me wrong the child is adorable. He just doesn't belong at the wedding and its not like they cant find a babysitter....they just don't want to. The sister in law comes from a family of 10! So please!
What would you do if you were me or us?