ok, so I am so sick of people complaining. I really do not want to hear it!!! Like a month ago a couple of the bridesmaids were complaing saying it is costing too much. I picked a color at DB and said get what ever style you want. There was even some on clearance. 1 of them got a dress for $40.00. Same for shoes, I said get whatever ones you want, they just have to be dyed. They could of gone to payless or walmart for white shoes for all I care and then had them dyed at DB for $3.00. The shower gone and past (which was wonderful), but my mother threw it (one of my sisters helped out a ton). None of the other bridesmaids offered to pitch in or do anything for it. Isn't it supposed to be the bridal party throwing it!!!! Why am I even giving them gifts...they have not done anything for the most part. I have done everything alone, invitations, favors, programs...all the stuff people can help with....Then more complaints about money. So hair and make-up $75.00, I am paying the tip...I don't think that is a bad price at all!!!The icing on the cake...now complaints the Bachlorette party is too much...to my FI...I asked the one sister what we were doing and she said what we were doing is costing $100.00 each girl. Are you kidding me...really....I am just so sick of it all. When asked to be in a wedding you know there is a cost involved. I could see if these girls were struggling, but it really does not seem like it considering they got out all the time. I know I don't know peoples personal situations, but I just really do not think I am asking too much from this wedding.$120.00 Dress$40.00 Shoes$75.00 hair and make up$100.00 Bachlorette partyLess then $350.00 at MOST!!! (like I said 1 of them got a dress for $40.00)Am I crazy..are your girls complaing about how much it is? How much are your girls putting up for the day?