I'm not sure this is the right place to post this but you seem like smart women and I need some advice. I have a friend and she is one of my BM. She has two adult children both in their mid 20s. Her oldest just recently moved out after a very lengthy career as a couch potato. She however still financially supports him and his gf and baby. The youngest is in college and therefore believes that she can not work, should not have to help out around the house and has no plans to move out any time soon. As in I expect her to be there when she is 30.
My friend is always calling with the woa is me attitude of how her kids don't do this or don't do that. I want to be there for her but I also sort of want to hit her with a brick and say you created this situation by allowing them to sponge off you forever.
This has been going on for years and I don't know what to do or say to her anymore. What would you do? Thanks for any help you all have to offer.