How would you handle this? Both my FI & I have parents who have split & remarried and he is worried about what happened at his sister's rehearsal dinner, as follows. At my FSIL's rehearsal dinner, she sat her Dad, her Dad's wife & Dad's wife's children (from a previous marriage), then her Mom, her Mom's husband, etc... Apparently, FMIL was so upset and being sat farther down the line than her ex-husbands' new wife's children that she eventually left the dinner in tears. This is quite out of character for FMIL as she is a very happy-go-lucky gal who rarely causes drama. This situation, however, apparently means a lot (see, two words!) to her and we would like to not repeat it.
FI is planning to tell give his Dad a heads up to let him know that we'll be seating FMIL before wife #2's children at the RD so there will be no surprises. I'm don't really have a good solution for this... is it okay to sit a 10 yo & a 5 yo away from their parents? They would end up next to FSIL who would likely have no issue with keeping an eye on them. The children are not in the wedding as they were in FSIL's, but as they are all coming from out of town, we thought it best to have everyone there.
Your thoughts?