I am having a dilemma and I don't know what to do! I really don't want children in my wedding party. I don't mind them at the wedding, but I just don't want them in the wedding party. I have two nieces who are 15 and 14 and my mom is insisting I have them as junior bridesmaids. I feel like that may cause some controversy because my fianc has 3 young nephews ages 3, 6, 7 and I have a 4 year old nephew. I do not want 4 little boys in my wedding and I don't want to just pick one. I feel like having the girls will cause my FSIL to have hard feelings, but my mom thinks its okay because they are older. I don't want to hurt their feelings by not including them, but I don't know what to do! Please help!