Thank You card for gift before the wedding...

nnicole209

Our wedding is 44 days away and we're beginning to receive gifts in the mail. Should the thank you card be sent right away or after the wedding? And does it make a difference if the gift is from someone who isn't vs. is attending the wedding?

Mrs.B6302007

All of y'all are correct.  Good job!  Keep it up.


:back to the couch to supervise:

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

Yes, send it now. I'm getting married next weekend and got my first wedding gift in July, from someone who is coming to the wedding (before invitations even went out).

If you're planning on getting personalized TY notes after the wedding, just pick up a pack of plain ones at Target now for the gifts you'll get before the wedding. Technically, etiquette dictates you send a gift ahead of time to the host's home, so you'll probably get a few more, in addition to shower gifts if you have a shower.

jakstr0808

Yep, what everyone else said....send'em now.

The only difference between people coming or not coming is you can write "We're so glad you're coming and can't wait to see you in a few weeks!" or "We're sorry you can't make it but we'll be thinking of you!"