Short and sweet, after booking my bachelorette party around my BM's schedule (who happens to be my future sister-in law), rather than when the rest of us wanted to go (She decided to book her own sister's bridal shower that weekend, so we changed dates)...little annoyed but okay. Then I get a phone call that she can only come one night. Fine, no big deal...Saturday will be the more exciting evening. Now this is where I am at a loss and don't know what I should do...
My brother (her future husband) called me to tell me that she is uncomfortable with me and doesn't feel like she knows me well enough to go altogether, but will pay her share. So, why did she say Yes to being in the wedding party. I already changed the date to accomodate her, bring a friend (the more the merrier) but she is not coming. My other bridesmaids aren't very happy because trying to keep track is not only annoying, but they have to lay out her portion and get it back. I don't feel that this is a very fair situation, not only did she have my brother call me, but she is bringing up her own wedding constantly (it's over a year away), has not spoken to me since my brother called me and I feel like the bad guy.
I'm not sure how or if I should approach this matter. I am working on re-building my relationship with my brother and do not want to rock the boat over her. He has asked me to try and work on things with her, but how can I when she can't even talk to me. Ever since they got engaged she has portrayed me as being an evil person, which I am not.
Any advice????