***pumpkinpumpkin & shellydiane***

iamjoesgurl

Both of you mentioned butterfly in the 2009 recap so I thought I would ask you...what is the back story?  I must have missed everything because she was a regular poster and then suddenly I did not see her anymore.  I thought I saw something about her being found out to be a vendor, but I always wondered what really happened.  I also thought I saw someone else post later in the year that I thought was her under an AE.  I'm just curious.  

thesuninherhead

Do you mean the cornrow butterfly? I believe she left because Frankie was her photog, and Frankie was banned for being a vendor, thus Butterfly gbck'ed. Or something like that.

shellydiane820

She bragged a lot about her AMAZING wedding in an ice castle hotel, and I think she was a wedding planner, and when Frankie was banned she kept saying things like "well I am a vendor, and I haven't been banned".

She was just annoying.

thesuninherhead

Was she not in some way related to Frankie? From memory Frankie took some pictures for her or was going to or something of that nature?

iamjoesgurl

Yes, that's the one.  I think she was getting married this February.  I knew she was a wedding planner, but I didn't know about Frankie.  I honestly don't even remember Frankie.  Thanks ladies!  Happy New Year!

SarahSmile23

ooooooooooh butterfly. i am convinced she still lurks. she was on way too often to have truly left.

Butterflymbca

That's kind of what happened... Frankie was taking my B-pics, OMg I guess it was like a year ago and I posted about it. Because of my post she ended up being banned as a vendor and I felt really bad. I made comments about it being unfair and I ended up being banned. That was it. I haven't been lurking but I am bored tonight and I googled butterflymbca and came across new knot posts LOL I don't know - maybe I am not banned anymore???

mwhitson14

This is really funny because your SN just showed up as hers.

SarahSmile23

wait. butterfly is back??

mwhitson14

Holy cow. And there she is.

Butterflymbca

Weird huh??? I literally was just sitting her bored and found this thread and poof, I was able to see everything again?

very strange...

SarahSmile23

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah

butterfly. whatcha up to?

SarahSmile23

no no. i think it proves my point that you lurk! do you secretly lurk?

Butterflymbca

I am sooo bored tonight! Fi is out, one kid asleep one, plugged in and I am watching Gladiator LOL. I haven't been on here in forever - didn't think I could anymore, kind of freaked me out when I saw the thread in google and was able to log in and post...

I can't believe I have been gone like a year and am still p!ssing people off LOL - almost flatering

Butterflymbca

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_pumpkinpumpkin-shellydiane?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:4da2dead-4a03-4cb0-a5d2-a9b2e998c1c1Post:c392a024-6ce6-42ec-bfff-27158d9393ac">Re: ***pumpkinpumpkin & shellydiane***</a>:
[QUOTE]no no. i think it proves my point that you lurk! do you secretly lurk?
Posted by SarahSmile23[/QUOTE]


I did when I first got banned for a few weeks, but haven't in forever - been way too busy and it was frustrating not being able to post.

shellydiane820

I don't think you piss people off, we just remember you.  There is a post below that talks about posts of 2009.

SarahSmile23

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_pumpkinpumpkin-shellydiane?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:4da2dead-4a03-4cb0-a5d2-a9b2e998c1c1Post:0e027831-829a-43af-bbdd-63257a0486be">Re: ***pumpkinpumpkin & shellydiane***</a>:
[QUOTE]I am sooo bored tonight! Fi is out, one kid asleep one, plugged in and I am watching Gladiator LOL. I haven't been on here in forever - didn't think I could anymore, kind of freaked me out when I saw the thread in google and was able to log in and post... I can't believe I have been gone like a year and am still p!ssing people off LOL - almost flatering :)
Posted by Butterflymbca[/QUOTE]

haha. well, you hadn't been mentioned in quite a while. so you had perfect timing with your google search!

Butterflymbca

That's the thread I found! The 2009 recap or whatever it was. It was weird to read and realize that I remember half the stuff on there but I think I was banned in like February or something like that. I lurked for awhile but that got boring fast.

thesuninherhead

Lucky that I didn't voice my secretly held suspicions that you were an AE of Frankie's then, isn't it! 

Butterflymbca

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_pumpkinpumpkin-shellydiane?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:4da2dead-4a03-4cb0-a5d2-a9b2e998c1c1Post:2827d6d4-bd39-4fa9-ae8e-0cabddc0c03b">Re: ***pumpkinpumpkin & shellydiane***</a>:
[QUOTE]Lucky that I didn't voice my secretly held suspicions that you were an AE of Frankie's then, isn't it! 
Posted by thesuninherhead[/QUOTE]

Ha ha - not a chance. She did do my B-pics last year though, spent the afternoon with her. That's about it. Never been an AE, never had one.

notquiteblushing

Hi Butterfly!  How's planning coming?

Butterflymbca

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_pumpkinpumpkin-shellydiane?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:4da2dead-4a03-4cb0-a5d2-a9b2e998c1c1Post:219a086d-88df-468f-b163-eee24543a92a">Re: ***pumpkinpumpkin & shellydiane***</a>:
[QUOTE]Hi Butterfly!  How's planning coming?
Posted by notquiteblushing[/QUOTE]

Awesome! 6 weeks to go!!!

:) Still have a tonne of stuff to do and finalize but it is getting there! We booked our honeymoon today so I am quite excited - I didn't think Fi would have enough holidays left after we took off in November to see the space Shuttle launch but he managed to sneak a coupl eof days in overtime so we can go away for a week :)

notquiteblushing

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_pumpkinpumpkin-shellydiane?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4da2dead-4a03-4cb0-a5d2-a9b2e998c1c1Post:d6fa41d4-86b3-4295-9510-f7a95e1d1ebe">Re: ***pumpkinpumpkin & shellydiane***</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ***pumpkinpumpkin & shellydiane*** : Awesome! 6 weeks to go!!! :) Still have a tonne of stuff to do and finalize but it is getting there! We booked our honeymoon today so I am quite excited - I didn't think Fi would have enough holidays left after we took off in November to see the space Shuttle launch but he managed to sneak a coupl eof days in overtime so we can go away for a week :)
Posted by Butterflymbca[/QUOTE]

Sweet.  Must be exciting to be in the final stretch.  We'll be there soon enough too.  Good luck!

Butterflymbca

when do you get married? We are February 13 - hard to believe it is almost here - I am so excited

notquiteblushing

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_pumpkinpumpkin-shellydiane?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:4da2dead-4a03-4cb0-a5d2-a9b2e998c1c1Post:54f267f3-6e93-495d-a54a-ecc97e583c76">Re: ***pumpkinpumpkin & shellydiane***</a>:
[QUOTE]when do you get married? We are February 13 - hard to believe it is almost here - I am so excited :)
Posted by Butterflymbca[/QUOTE]

Not until July 17th.  Still seems like a ways off but now at least I can say I'm getting married "this year." <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />

Butterflymbca

That is awesome! The day after Fi's birthday

When we got engaged we had over 500 days and now it is like next month - scary how fast it went!