We're getting married on Novemeber 5th of this year, and we couldn't be more excited! We've decided to elope (shhh! It's a secret!) to New Orleans, with only our baby girl and two best friends in attendance. It's going to be amazing.
But...
We want to include our families with a reception afterward, since they'll all be put out about the secret wedding. The problem is, with an impending move, we don't have the financial recourses to fund a reception for 150 people until the end of the year. The problem is that he's leaving for boot camp on December 5th, exactly one month after our wedding , and we need that month in between for saying goodbye, packing, changing my name, and sorting out our dependant forms with the Navy. He gets back in January, but then baby and I will be moving across the country to join him in Charleston. Not the best time to have a reception, I think you'll agree.
So, at earliest, this puts us at a reception next spring. Is this allowable? I think that's a little too late, but I hate to nix it altogether. He doesn't see the problem with it, and doesn't htink that his family will either, provided we keep the wedding a secret until then.
What do you think? Is 5-6 months too late to have a reception, even under the circumstances?