My bridal shower was originally being planned by one of my BMs (my FI's brother's girlfriend). However, my FMIL started jumping in on the planning and changed the location from the place where my BM had originally wanted to host it. Apparently, my FMIL thought my BM wasn't hosting it since she hadn't heard anything about it in months after her originally saying she was going to plan it and now my BM is upset because it's like the hostess job got ripped out of her hands.
I tried expressing this to my FMIL and she got upset, saying it was supposed to be her job as the mother of the groom to host the bridal shower. My BM basically backed out of planning thinking my FMIL was taking over a couple weeks ago and last night I asked my FMIL how shower planning was going and she said "what shower? I think your BM was planning it." So, now I have no one planning my shower! What do I do?