My wedding isn't until July, except my F MIL just recently got remarried and her husband had children, one of which he doesnt speak, so he is not invited and currently his daughter is also not invited except my MIL has been arguing back and forth for months with my FH that her "step-daughter" is to be invited, the step daughter happens to be in her 30s and lives in a different state and we have only met her once, and my MIL is not seeing that it is our wedding and we should invite who we would like to invite, we also wanted to get the list to 210 and we are currently at 220, and we are paying for the wedding ourselves. Everyone we have talked to about it says that she should back off because it is our wedding but we are going nuts over this because we dont want anything serious to happen but she has already said that me and my FH should UNINVITE one of our friends so the step daughter can attend, HELP any idea would be great!! Please