So I was invited to a work baby shower for a coworker/friend. It's one of those things where you chip in money and they get the mommy-to-be either a big gift or a gift card. They do this for most mommy and brides to be at my work. It's all volunteer and yada yada yada.
So I feel kind of bad because I gave less than what I'd normally give if I was going to a regular baby shower where I gave an actual present. Money IS kind of tight, and they said to give what you could, so I did. But I'm still feeling like a cheapskate.
Question:
If you were invited to a shower where you chip in for one big gift, would you give as much as you normally would or would you possibly give less?
I think I was tempted to give less because a $$ amount wouldn't be attached to my name and only the organizer knows how much I gave. I wanted to contribute, but honestly can't afford much right now.
That last part is probably KPS worthy, but oh well.