I'm close to 'finalizing' a guest list, and I'm freaking out--I'm part of a very large theater company, and not all of the company will be getting an invite (due to cost, and because frankly, I'm closer to some members than others). But I know it might get very awkward if people start talking. Should I make some kind of public disclaimer on our company forum apologizing to people who don't make the cut? There's another company wedding happening this May and I'm pretty sure I'm not on the invite list, and frankly, I feel super weird everytime another company member brings it up. I think I'd feel more comfortable if the couple had made an announcement about a smaller guest list or something. Is this a faux pas? If I do it, what should it say?