I'm planning on inviting two close friends to our wedding, who I know from a hobby club we're all part of. It's a fairly large club, over 40 people. I've been keeping fairly mum about the wedding planning, and have asked the two people I'm inviting to do so as well so as not to make everyone else feel left out.
Recently, my two friends got an apartment another girl who is also in the club. We're on friendly terms, and she's someone I like, but we're not particularly close and I haven't known her for very long.
I'm concerned that if I send an invitation to just these two, she will feel left out, as on obvious omission from the invite. But if I invite her, I feel that others in the group who I've known longer will feel slighted. I'd be happy to have her at the wedding, but am concerned about hurting others feelings.
Should I invite her? Should I hand deliver the invites to the other two so as not to hurt her feelings?