My wedding is 6 weeks away and I have 2 bridesmaids. We are all good friends so I figured instead of picking out dresses for them I would let them chose. I gave them guidelines as to what I wanted but was never forceful about what they needed to do. Now, with 6 weeks to the wedding they haven't done anything so I've decided to take control.
They're making me feel awful and not being accommodating at all. I've now searched out dresses but they still won't come together to look with me. I have to go with them one at a time which is now stressing me out! Is this right of them to do and is it my fault that I'm now in this situation? To top it off, one of the girls does not want to wear colour (I requested anything but black) and she's making me feel badly that she actually has to purchase the dress herself. I need advice.