I need advice or ideas, ladies! I know there have been posts similar to this topic before, but I was hoping some knotties out there could give some feedback. I've always wanted to get married outdoors and thought my FI was on the same page, but when it came time to actually plan the ceremony he realized that it was important to him to be married in the Catholic church he was raised in. I was also raised Catholic but no longer feel connected to the church at all. I'm willing to go to the Pre Cana meetings and retreat, but I don't feel it's appropriate to get married in the church considering my current beliefs. My fiance's bottom line is that he wants the blessing of a priest when we get married, but priests of course cannot marry anyone oustide of the church. At this point it seems like one of us is going to be forced to do somethign we are uncomfortable with. Are there any compromises you can think of out there?