My fiance and I are planning on having a small wedding and reception. It is being held about 1.5+ hours from where any of our family lives. Our list is cut to only 100 people. We don't want our guests to be only family only and no friends. The trouble is I have a large familly. Each of my parents have 3+ siblings and each family has 3-5 kids who are almost all married or in long term relationships - some of them with kids. I was going to invite my aunts and uncles only - not my cousins or their kids. I rarely see any of them - they are what I call "holiday family". Thoughts???