I need advice.
My sister is my bridesmaid, but I feel like she's pushing me to do things her way, without any of my input.
I found out one day that she'd gone out and bought a dress for the wedding. It was very nice, but it's the exact same style/cut/neckline as my wedding dress. I would have preferred something a little different, but it's not a big deal. She looks very nice in it. So, I let it go.
She's single, so I said that I didn't have her down for a +1, but if there was someone special, to let me know. Huge blowup. She says it doesn't have to be someone special, and she'll "find" someone to bring. I asked if she would be okay with not bringing just a friend so that we could invite more family (we crunched for space). I'm apparently a bridezilla for asking, and she's not speaking to me.
How do I get some input in my wedding, without upsetting my sister? How do I let her bring a friend, without just laying down and letting her bully me? *sigh*