Cash Bar/wedding invitations

terrapv

no need to be rude. I was just looking for advice. Not everyone is rolling in money.

Best wishes.

terrapv

Well, I first would like to thank everyone for their responses. There is some really good advice on here that I will use. I came to this website because I thought I could get some great tips from some great women that are going through the same experience as I am in planning their wedding. Some of you took this opportunity to criticize and judge me and others on here that have a tight budget. Not everyone has the money to have  a open bar as it can be a great expense. Of course I would love to have a open bar, but its just not realistic for me. Thanks to those who offered real advice. I don't think I will post here again as it seems to be a real "Mean Girls" group.

 

Thanks again

Tacky Terra

flutgrl1

Weddings are one of the few times I always carry cash. You usually can't tip on a card and plus you never know if it is going to be cash bar of any sort. So I wouldn't be shocked by it.
I never expect someone else no matter the situation to support my borderline alcoholism j/k

On a serious note. If I knew the b/g cut guests etc to afford an open bar I would feel bad. In the end, I don't mind buying my own drinks. I would hate having no drinks tho.

amandadanis

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Why in the world was this bumped with a blank post?

Bubbles2014

I'm guessing the poster replied to the post, realised it was a million years old, then deleted her response,

NYCBruin

Poor dead threads.  The search function won't let them rest in peace.  

cheapbrideincentpa

I am fine with a cash bar, I would much rather go to a wedding with a cash bar, than go to a wedding with NO bar. Honestly I don't expect anyone to buy my alcohol. But I wouldn't put it on the invite. I think even mentioning it depends on your circle of friends. I don't go to a wedding expecting free alcohol. Where we are getting married is BOYB, We are providing some alcohol we like, but I have told a few close friends if they want something specific they are welcome to bring it.