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Save the date/christmas cards

I am getting married on Sept 3, 2011 and am trying to decide on if I should send out save the date cards or not. Someone told me i should because of having alot of family out of town and it being around a holiday. Here's my question...instead of sending out Christmas cards and save the dates...is it ok to include my save the date with my card...to save on time and money?

Re: Save the date/christmas cards

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    Yes. 

    I think this is the 3rd time this question was asked this week. 
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    A friend of mine had mentioned this idea before.  I wouldn't choose to do it myself but wouldn't think anything of it if I received a combo STD/Christmas card from someone.  if you are looking to save some funds I think its a fine idea.  And, people should be receiving them around the same time they buy their 2011 calendars so they can pencil in your date so that could be beneficial. 

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_save-datechristmas-cards?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:e3c70b3b-0ee0-4c91-ad39-18e687f1445cPost:3879221a-632e-4e4c-996e-68bad7bafbe3">Re: Save the date/christmas cards</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yes.  I think this is the 3rd time this question was asked this week. 
    Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]

    And if you count the other 1,387,903 times it's been asked in the past two months or so.....
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Waiting to meet the baby broccoli on 5/5/2013!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_save-datechristmas-cards?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e3c70b3b-0ee0-4c91-ad39-18e687f1445cPost:57a89ef0-2c88-4116-b8dc-e7dc8815b275">Re: Save the date/christmas cards</a>:
    [QUOTE]Be sure the STDs only go in the Christmas cards of the people you are 100% sure will be invited to the wedding.  That would be a crappy mix up if someone accidentally got an STD and never got an invite.
    Posted by ILoveMilkDuds[/QUOTE]

    yeah, this. Are you going to be sending any Christmas cards to people not invited to the wedding?  You'll need different Christmas cards if you do.

    Andplusalso, your wedding will be on my birthday!  <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />
    Which is completely irrelevant, but hey, I needed to make my 1000 post. And now I have.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_save-datechristmas-cards?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e3c70b3b-0ee0-4c91-ad39-18e687f1445cPost:1a8c40f8-9173-433e-b29e-926aa40f9d76">Re: Save the date/christmas cards</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Save the date/christmas cards : yeah, this. Are you going to be sending any Christmas cards to people not invited to the wedding?  You'll need different Christmas cards if you do. Andplusalso, your wedding will be on my birthday!  Which is completely irrelevant, but hey, I needed to make my 1000 post. And now I have.
    Posted by cengle[/QUOTE]
     You're doing it wrong... Post # 1000 only counts if you do a big AW post about how you have 1000 posts :)... 
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_save-datechristmas-cards?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e3c70b3b-0ee0-4c91-ad39-18e687f1445cPost:71bf5f83-7b3c-448d-b067-b2e3513d1096">Re: Save the date/christmas cards</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Save the date/christmas cards :  You're doing it wrong... Post # 1000 only counts if you do a big AW post about how you have 1000 posts :)... 
    Posted by Loopyseven[/QUOTE]

    I thought about it.  But then I decided that no one probably cared but me :(
    I have an inferiority complex.
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    LOL... wise decision.  Someone posted an OMG - I'm at 500 posts the other day, and got kinda flamed for it.  (It might have been on SB).
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    I asked this on my wedding month board and got responses saying that the STD might get lost in the shuffle if I sent them with Christmas cards.  I am still going to do it for a few OOT friends that I know will pay attention though.
    We ran off to Vegas and got married!
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    I am getting married the same day and I was thinking about doing the same ideas but Im not sure how to go about doing it. What sort of design would i choose for this?
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