How to ask for cash instead of gifts? And how to request no children?

I know I know, terrible but please don't flame me.

I'm helping some friends with their wedding and they A. have a tiny space and are having an evening wedding and do not want everyone to bring their children or else they will have to cut their guest list and B. they're moving to Paraguay a month after the wedding and therefore wedding gifts would be more of a burdon than a "gift" however they still need to furnish their apartment in Paraguay so they still need the basics; toaster, blender etc.
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