My son (and only child) is getting married in May. When my sister's oldest daughter got married I helped a lot (bought her tiara, hosted the BM luncheon, had her and her MOH stay with us the night before the wedding, had all the BMs and bride dress and take photos at my house, etc.), which I was more than happy to do-- I adore my niece and her parents don't have a lot of $$. When my other sister's son was married we flew to Australia and spent 2 weeks there so he would have some of his family present for the festivities. Again, we were thrilled to be able to be there for him. Now it's my son's turn. Am I expecting too much that one of my sisters or my niece would offer to host a shower? Would I be out of line in suggesting such a thing? I do not want to seem greedy or meddlesome, so should I just let it go?