My boyfriend and I are soon to be engaged, we looked at rings and he is picking one out in time for December. Our families know this is coming and I have already started some researching.
I was in his sister's wedding and my mother told me it would be nice of me to have her in mine. When I asked my boyfriend who he thinks should be a bridesmaid he mentioned his sister as one of them.
She is just so incredibly difficult to be around I think because I have never met someone in my life that was so snobby and so full of themselves and -controlling-. We are alike in ways, just that we both have the same style and like the same things and so we at least have something in common.
All I will say is I am in awe that she has any friends at all with the way she acts and the way she treats people. Acts like she always has a tiara on her head and treats people like they're her pets/slaves, she's 29.
Now, I will be honest, I don't think she will act like this towards me by being in the wedding but I'm also afraid that because I'm marrying her brother that she will think she has a right to add people to the guest list or do things a certain way-- basically be controlling.
Honestly, I don't want her there for anything she doesn't absolutely have to be there for. I think my only other bridesmaid will be my sister. So it's not like I'm leaving her out of a group of 5 other bridesmaids.
I honestly don't want her in it, I still have to talk to my boyfriend about it. But I think I may just have her in it to be nice and everything. I think the controlling part won't make any difference whether she's in it or not.
Is there anything any of you are doing or have done that made something like this any easier??