I am sending my invitations the first week of November for a February 4 wedding. (done specifically to avoid a clash between Christmas cards/Christmas season)
I was going to requet a reply by January 11, 2012. (I need to give the hall a final number by the January 31)
Is this ok? Should I give people longer? My family has a habit of not sending replies on time so I wanted to have more than two weeks to call those who don't reply.