Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you

mari0225

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:29ece3e9-b5fd-4828-a9c7-b403ece11568">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]I always find it ironic when people say that those who post on message boards should get lives ...while on a message board.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

Yeah that doesn't quite make sense.

cindyn9178

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:29ece3e9-b5fd-4828-a9c7-b403ece11568">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]I always find it ironic when people say that those who post on message boards should get lives ...while on a message board.
Posted by baystateaou

Ok, you are obviously illiterate or something... I didn't say "people who post on message boards should get lives".
I said that regulars on a message board - in other words people who post on the same board a billion times all day, every day, for years, and know everybody on the board, need to look at their priorities.

MyUserName1

Seems to be a fairly welcoming "clique" since there's a newb chatting away in this very thread.  KWill got flamed to high heaven, got over it and decided to make friends.

ggirl2001

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:29ece3e9-b5fd-4828-a9c7-b403ece11568">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]I always find it ironic when people say that those who post on message boards should get lives ...while on a message board.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]


Stop with your logic. That makes perfect sense.

baystateapple

Cindy, you've now called me blind and illiterate.  Clearly, since I'm typing here, I am neither.  Knock off the personal insults.

kwilliams111012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:35b88383-0f37-40fb-bb10-2890ec5eb762">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]Ok, I'll say it, I think that not serving any food at a cocktail hour is extremely dumb and cheap.
Posted by cindyn9178[/QUOTE]

Wouldn't it have been easier to just say that the first time?  Isn't being honest fun?

mica178

Somehow, despite all of our harshness, we get new regular posters all the time.  Someone appreciates the advice they receive here.

Why do you stick around?  You don't care about etiquette, you are rude to people planning weddings with lower budgets, and you hate the regular posters.  I don't get the appeal of the Etiquette board for you, Cindy.

cindyn9178

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:cf6882e5-0c3b-42d5-a5ec-fe614510a16c">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]Seems to be a fairly welcoming "clique" since there's a newb chatting away in this very thread.  KWill got flamed to high heaven, got over it and decided to make friends.
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]
Ooooh one newbie. Maybe you should look at some other boards who get tons of newbies every day that actively participate and aren't AFRAID to ask something.

Birdie1483

I really am having fun poking Cindy, but I am a little ticked too.

Let me tell you a story. A little over 3 weeks after my wedding, my aunt, who was like a second mother to me, unexpectedly passed away. The math department at the high school she worked at for 40-something years didn't even send flowers, but you know who did? The lovely girls on this message board. So yes, I'm happy with the priorities that I've made because it means I've made true friends that support me when shiit gets real, even if they've never "met" me before.

So you can suck on that.

kwilliams111012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:cf6882e5-0c3b-42d5-a5ec-fe614510a16c">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]Seems to be a fairly welcoming "clique" since there's a newb chatting away in this very thread.  KWill got flamed to high heaven, got over it and decided to make friends.
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

TRUE THAT. 

calibud8

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:bea913cd-1fa4-4207-9ae9-9809975ded7a">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]You guys do come off harsh sometimes, but in the end the honest opinion is really what we're all looking for....even if we don't want to hear it.  Thanks for not being afraid to give it, like so many of our friends and family are. Sincerely, Newbie Bride with previous knot.com mistakes
Posted by kwilliams111012[/QUOTE]

I agree.  I've had my hand slapped a few times, but after my ego recovered, I come back time and time again.

Just because I may not have liked the advice at first doesn't mean it wasn't the RIGHT advise.

Live on E-board!  <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-kiss.gif" border="0" alt="Kiss" title="Kiss" />

cindyn9178

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:fe96ca53-0f1b-4aca-baf3-535b183f832a">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]Cindy, you've now called me blind and illiterate.  Clearly, since I'm typing here, I am neither.  Knock off the personal insults.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

Nothing like taking things literally. You know exactly what I meant. Or maybe you don't, because it is incomprehensible? You have put words into my mouth two times now, and have nothing to prove what you are accusing me of.

cindyn9178

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:23c506e1-5264-4a05-b194-a78ea19ea90b">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]I really am having fun poking Cindy, but I am a little ticked too. Let me tell you a story. A little over 3 weeks after my wedding, my aunt, who was like a second mother to me, unexpectedly passed away. The math department at the high school she worked at for 40-something years didn't even send flowers, but you know who did? The lovely girls on this message board. So yes, I'm happy with the priorities that I've made because it means I've made true friends that support me when shiit gets real, even if they've never "met" me before. So you can suck on that.
Posted by Birdie1483[/QUOTE]

That's pathetic.

Birdie1483

Oh go fuuck yourself

crfische

I don't know if you know this Cindy, but...

We were ALL newbies at one point.

And E is the most active board on the Knot.

So.

I don't understand your logic here.

adamar15

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:e1ab5c75-fc54-441f-9670-ff274d9c7aab">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you : That's pathetic.
Posted by cindyn9178[/QUOTE]

Are you fucking kidding me?  You can fuuck right off.

ggirl2001

Uh Cindy you do realize everyone was new at one point right? I get comfortable here right away with no problems. I don't post that much anymore, but I am not afraid when I do. I wasnt afraid that much when I was new. Why? Because I freaking lurked for a bit.

mica178

Okay, Cindy, you've crossed the line.  Apologize to Bay and Birdie.

cindyn9178

yes, everybody was a newbie at some point. And this board is now full of likeminded people with one thing in common - people with a lack of manners who enjoy telling other people what to do, what is right and wrong, but don't follow any of their own advice.

ggirl2001

Also seriously? That's a new fuucking low.

midgetthemighty

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:e1ab5c75-fc54-441f-9670-ff274d9c7aab">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you : That's pathetic.
Posted by cindyn9178[/QUOTE]

HOW is that pathetic? It makes me sad that you think people caring about others is pathetic. Really sad.

cindyn9178

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:b0423ce7-d5d0-4348-8bc5-af74331ee249">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]Okay, Cindy, you've crossed the line.  Apologize to Bay and Birdie.
Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]
Sorry, I don't know people here on a first name basis. And last I checked you're not my mother.

crfische

Whoa Cindy.

NOW IM FUCKING ANGRY YOU DIRTY ASS HOAR.

(bay don't ban me)

Birdie is my friend. I have known her for years. I'm sorry that you're an insensitive priick, who doesn't understand what it's like to care about someone.

Do you not send flowers to your friends?

crfische

Because telling people who did a kind thing for a friend is rude?

No, calling it pathetic was rude.

YOURE RUDE.

cindyn9178

So it is ok to use vulgarity if you add extra letters? Nice.

mari0225

That's just disgusting that you'd say that!

ETA: Edited for spelling fail

ggirl2001

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:555a0ea2-f113-45a4-b006-8bfed4b0f630">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]yes, everybody was a newbie at some point. And this board is now full of likeminded people with one thing in common - people with a lack of manners who enjoy telling other people what to do, what is right and wrong, but don't follow any of their own advice.
Posted by cindyn9178[/QUOTE]
Are you seriously dense? How do you not see that you are doing the exact same thing by calling people pathetic, illiterate, and blind. Get off your fuucking high horse, because you are clearly no better.

mica178

I've warned you.  Keep this up and I'll ban you permanently from the Knot.

strlzfan11

Cindy you do realize, don't you, that the mods around here are the only one who actually CAN tell you how to post?

cindyn9178

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_listen-up-newbie-brides-this-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:f60ca394-2eb6-44b5-9038-18979976f324Post:67fb78aa-3226-4814-8bf4-d291ca8165e3">Re: Listen Up Newbie Brides - This one is for you</a>:
[QUOTE]Whoa Cindy. NOW IM FUCKING ANGRY YOU DIRTY ASS HOAR. (bay don't ban me) Birdie is my friend. I have known her for years. I'm sorry that you're an insensitive priick, who doesn't understand what it's like to care about someone. Do you not send flowers to your friends?
Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]
So you can use vulgar words and call someone that word but not get banned because you are friends with the MOD?

Wow.