I am 1 of 4 BMs in my friends wedding. Her maid of honor is her younger sister (she is 22). I know her sister and her mom set a date and place for her bridal shower but I haven't heard anything else about it.
As a BM, what should I be helping with/contributing to? Do we help pay for the shower? I'm clueless since I've never been a BM and feel weird asking my close friends since most of them are my BMs!