My fiance and I are thinking of having a ceremony with just immediate family. The problem is we want to have a picnic reception inviting our entire family - aunts, uncles, cousins and friends (about 50 people). I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings by not inviting them to the ceremony, but we really want to keep the ceremony more intimate. Everyone will have to travel to either the ceremony or reception as no one else lives in our home state.What do you think? Am I being paranoid? How can we handle this without allienating our family and friends? Any thought or ideas would be deeply appreciated?