ok....we are at 96 days....Feb. 18th. OMG!!!!! Anway.....when is everyone sending out their invitations? I have read that since its near a holiday....even though Xmas is well before, that you should send them out earlier to help people plan accordingly. We want RSVP's back by Jan.18th also. Any suggestions? My sister say's we don't need to send them out earlier because of the STD's but I disagree. I don't want them to get lost in the shuffle of Christmas cards and holiday party invitations.....