I know this has been everyone's biggest gripe since invites were sent out! I am still waiting on 8 responses (which is pretty good) and of course 4 of them are people we rarely talk to. One was actually my FI's Mom's Best friend and he has not seen her since his mom passed in 2008. I gonna assume she is a no. Another couple is from his side and they live about 3 hours away from us. I think they would have responded by now if they were coming! Next...on to finish the seating. Dreading that...I will prob do it Friday night accompanied with a bottle of wine!