I asked my sister to be my maid of honor. She said that she would not be in my wedding (due to anger issues is what she said?). What is the appropriate response? I love my sister and have been trying for years to build a relationship with her. I anticipate my other sister turning me down too. I don't want to do anything out of anger. Just not sure how I'm supposed to react. Feeling a bit hurt and I don't want this to have a negative effect on our wedding day. Has anyone else experienced this?