Good morning. I need some advice about a situation that I've found myself in. When I got engaged, my plan was to have my two brothers walk me down the aisle. My father and I don't have that close of a relationship. They were ok with that and so was my mother and sisters. Well, within the last couple of days, things have changed. I talked to my father and he's going to walk me down the aisle.
My thoughts were to have my two brothers walk my mother down the asile and take a seat next to her. Well, my mom and younger sister is upset because they don't have a bigger role. They talked to my brothers and said that they were hurt because they felt like they didn't have a large role in the wedding. I think that it's basically the same role as the one they had at the beginning. The only difference is that its my mom they was escorting and not me.
My mother said that I need to make them groomsmen. I feel like it's too late. We're two months away and I can't insert them as groomsmen. I'd have to find two additional bridesmaids. So, she told me to tell my fiance to drop two of his guys so that my brothers can be in the wedding. I told her I wasn't going to do that. Am I in the wrong?
I don't want my brothers upset with me. What else can they do? We already have ushers. Can I make them greeters for when the guests arrive at the church? Or is that what the usher do?
