So I just got a call from my bridal salon telling my dress has come in, and it got me back to thinking...
When I purchased my dress, I was definitely caught up in the moment. My "dream" dress at the time was a Vera Wang Diana which I got to try on but definitely did not meet my expectations -- so I was deflated and saddened. Then every dress I tried on just didn't look good on me, or wasn't what I wanted, or looked wrong, etc. I got to a point where I was frustrated and getting desperate. Then we went to "the" salon, where I found a dress that was strikingly similar to the Diana dress I had been dreaming about but was half the price and looked just as "fluffy" as I was hoping.
Problem?
Well, for starters, my mom passed away awhile ago, so during the dress-searching process I relied heavily on my father. One of the dresses I tried on was inspired by a Dior gown -- but it was SO untraditional! It was grey/blue, no train, very intricate piping, and it looked like a red carpet gown... but it wasn't remotely close to making me feel like a bride. Well, my dad LOVED that dress. He continues to talk about how amazing I looked in it, and blah blah blah.
Part TWO of this is that I've always wanted a fashion-forward gown. I have never wanted a cookie-cutter "typical" or "expected" gown. Yet, at the same time, I wanted to feel like a bride when I was in the dress. I interpreted this as an unconventional design while still being generally white in color and some sort of silhouette similar to a ball gown.
So, long story short...
I don't feel like my dress is up to every standard I had hoped for. I broke down and showed FI the dress (not with me in it) and he likes it and says it isn't worth trying to find another one... but I still can't help but feel anxious about it. I don't know if it's really "me" -- and ESPECIALLY since my dad won't stop freaking talking about that other dress... it just has me feeling so insecure about my decision. But at the same time, it is a really pretty dress and there's nothing
wrong with it... I know it'll be beautiful and nobody will have any idea about my dilemma... but ugh.
I guess I'm part venting and part hoping for advice...
Any dream dress that I would be willing to go through the effort of selling my current dress for would be at LEAST twice the price. I just can't decide if it's worth it.
Anyway, here's a pic of the dress on a mannequin (but it'll be converted to a sweetheart neckline):
Here's an example of maybe a dress I'd trade it for:
Please convince me I'm crazy and I don't need to do this. ;_;