So here is some back story, I have 4 girls in my wedding party, 3 are friends from elementary school and my "Maid of Honor" is a girl ive known from college. I would have had one of the girls from elementary school be the MOH, but she was the MOH in our other friends wedding. My college friend had told me before she would do it but she seemed like it would be too overwhelming.
My solution to this problem, Both of them are my MOH, one live near me (the college girl) So I call her my southern california MOH, and the other lives in Northern California (where I grew up and where my parents live) and she is my nor cal MOH.
So between christmas and new years my FI, the So cal MOH and I went to northern california and met up with all 3 of the other bridal pary. We did things like pick out the bridesmaids dresses, picked a weekend for the bridal shower and bachelorette party. Which was all fine and went well.
Then we were sitting around and 2 girls were looking for shoes to wear with the dresses, and my main MOH, the so cal MOH goes " Thats it, this is too stressful, I cant do it anymore, being a maid of honor is too hard".... and all of us kinda look at her like um what? and ignore her and continue doing what we were doing. Im not sure if she was being sarcastic, or serious..
This was after a whole week of her kinda over stressing about the "role of the MOH" when she has another girl helping with each party, all she really has to do is be there and do a speach.. im like GET OVER IT, im the one planning the whole wedding, why are u stressing out so much over stupid little stuff!
what should i do?