Ok i probably should have found another blog to post this in, however i have come to realize that some of the other people are just mean lol. so here is my question. I am 19 and engaged. We are getting married September 6th, 2014 (I will be 21 and we just celebrated our 4 year anniversary on Sat.) and i want to know how to tell my mom. She had a really bad experience with my birth dad when she was my age is constantly telling me about how i am to attached to him and he is going to crush me and everything else negative about being serious with someone at this age. I was just curious if anyone knew any special way to tell her that will prove to her that we do love each other.