Ceremony program for a judge?

runner7785

We're getting married at a country club by a judge. I'm supposed to send her the program so she can tailor her ceremony to it...but I have NO idea what goes on the program for a ceremony done by a judge. Does anyone have any suggestions?

trix1223

Google wedding ceremonies.  Then read the scores of ceremonies that will come up.  Choose those elements that you like, and discard those that you don't.  And then build your ceremony from there.  Example:  Will you have a charge to the couple?  Will you have vows?  Will they be traditional or will you write your own?

Will you have readings?  Do you know what they'll be and who will read them?  Will you do a unity candle or similar ritual?  Will you be introduced at the end?  Will you want the question "If anyone here knows any reason why this couple should not...."?  Will you want a prayer offered by anybody?

I'm sure that what the judge means.  An outline of the elements of a ceremony that you want in the order that you want them.  GL