My FI and I had multiple conversations where we decided that truly single guests would be invited without a +1, both to save a bit of money, and because in our venue when you get ove a certain number of guests some have to be seated above the shark tank instead of just around it. . . . I kinda prefer everyone on the same level. Now that invitations have gone out, and we are starting to get RSVPs back he feels bad about not inviting people with guests.
We had our first guest who was invited solo RSVP with a +1. Everyone says it happens, but I was still a little taken aback by it. It just seems ballsy to me. We still have a lot of RSVPs still outstanding, so we might get more no's and still be able to fit everyone on one level.
That coupled with the argument FI have gotten into about the topic caused me to have an absurd dream where people were RSVPing with friends, their dad, their cousings. . . . one even RSVP'ed with their masseuse. It was bizarre.
I think that with 47 days to the wedding (as per the Knot's countdown) w have found the first wedding fight trigger between FI and me.
Really, this is just a vent because I'm a little bummed out that he conveniently forgot that we made a joint decision and is trying to blame me.