We are getting married in my fiance's home town in Louisiana. His family will not need to arrange accommodations. My family and friends will be traveling 1-2 hours to attend our wedding and may choose to get a hotel instead of driving back after a long day of celebrating. We also have A LOT of out of state guests (NY, CA, TN) that will have to arrange travel and accommodations in advance so I would like to give them addequate formal notice. Do I send STD's to just the out of state guests? Out of state and my fam and friends out of town? Or will the wedding invitations 8 weeks out be enough notice for them? Or do I send them to everyone to avoid any confusion (drama!) if word gets out that some received STD's and some did not? help! Thanks
