I keep trying to figure out who we are going to invite so I can estimate the cost of our caterer, get a number for invites/STDs/chairs/tables, etc. I NEED this number. FI is being very uncooperative about inviting his side. He just says, "I don't know."...If you haven't noticed by now, I am a very impatient person. In fact, I would say I have zero patience. I just wasn't graced with that virtue. So FI inability to help me, makes me crazy and I then get ill and that never ends well.
The venue we booked has a dining area indoors but can probably hold 50 people comfortably. There are several benches and sitting areas outdoors. My plan was to rent about 10 more tables and enough chairs for them (hold 60-80 people depending on the size of table). People could eat indoors, outdoors at the tables, and outdoors at the benches/sitting areas. Is that ok or rude?
My sister, who also by now you know I can't stand, is on a the war path because I want real flowers. She is paying for nothing. Why should she care? She keeps saying little things like, "C is too good to have fake flowers."...Who the hell cares if I have real flowers? It's my wedding. If I want real flowers, I can have them. My parents are paying for the most part of my wedding, but if the flowers go over the budgeted amount for them, I am paying the difference.
Oh and then there is the fact that I could get attacked by a black bear on our honeymoon! Not likely I know, but still it could happen.
Speaking of honeymoon...I found a better cabin...no indoor private pool but it has a home theater in the loft and a "dance pole"...is that a stripper pole? lol is that even sanitary?? hahaha
And possible date change to 6/22/13...that's just bumping it up a week so we don't have to pay the holiday rate for the cabin and plus it won't be as packed in Gatlinburg. I'm actually more excited about the honeymoon than I am the wedding.
ETA: Just looked at more pictures! It has a massive shower. Like multiple shower heads...lol that could be fun.