I asked my sister to be my MOH in December. At the time she said yeah of course! Now with the wedding coming up she's like I may be there, probably not but maybe. I only have 1 bridesmaid and I think it's rude to be like oh your the MOH if sis doesn't show. Idk what to do or how to respond to anything on this situation. I guess I'll just have like an extra bouquet and like what about bm gifts? Do I just not order hers or what? I feel like its a waste of money if she doesn't show. I've tried being very understanding and offered her ways and help getting here but she's like not accepting them.