So I just got engaged and my fiancé and I are trying to figure out what type of wedding we want. I've always dreamed of having a large fairytale wedding. But my fiancé has a very small family (only parents, 2 siblings, niece and nephew) and wants a small, intimate wedding. I have a large family (mom, 3 brothers, nephew, 14 aunts and uncles, their spouses, their kids, their grandkids, etc.) and would like to include them all in the celebration somehow...
What is a good way to do it so I can have everyone there who is important but not have a completely uneven group of guests?