My brother is getting married this summer, it's out of town but it's just barely out of town for the bride (her family is from the next town over). My mom is starting to plan the rehearsal dinner as she was asked. She asked for the guest list and the bride said she doesnt have the names down yet, but said it will need to seat 50 people. I cannot fathom it. 5 maids (and lets say their dates) 5 GM (add in dates) the bride, the groom that get us to 22. Add in immediate family on our side and you get to 30. How is possible to get 20 more people?
Anyway, brides what should we do? How do you bring up paring down this list? My mom is distrought- she doesn't want to look cheap, but at the same time that is an overwhelming amount when you consider that she is paying for 10 people in our family to come to this wedding in the first place and the brides family lives 3 miles down the road.