I'm recently engaged, with a wedding date of 10/19/2013. My problem is my inability to pay for a rehearsal dinner. The venue we are having the ceremony and reception at has a 35 person minimum at $22 p/p, plus room rental fee, + 27% tax and fees(not including alcohol)...we only have about 45 people total as guests. So even if the RD is only bride, groom, bride-to-be's mother, and those in the ceremony(4-6 others), I'm looking at close to $600, IF they waive the minimum person requirement...I still don't have that money. I'm already paycheck to paycheck, with $20k in debt.... I have no parents to ask for help, and we live about 90 minutes from the venue itself, so I can't expect people to attend at the venue, and then drive that far to my house for a low-key BBQ or pizza party...If we went to a restaurant, it would certainly be more than $600..
Any ideas? I don't think I can get away with not having an RD.. But I'm in no way able to pay for it..