I need to get this out somewhere! My ex is making my life miserable right now. FI and I are getting married June 1. Ex and I have 5 kids together. We were married almost 13 years, until he ran off with his bimbo to Mexico and I found out after he got back they've been together 3 years started dating her when my youngest were 9 months old. So that's the background. He hates that I'm moving on he married his bimbo last July after finding out FI and were engaged. He has actually called CPS and when they came out and found out the charges were bogus, then told him, he changed his story and sent me many nasty texts. Nothing new really, he is always mean and nasty to me. Well... Friday was payday and I didn't get child support or alimony he never wanted me to work or go to school. He thinks I'm a bad mom for going to school now. I get a text from him yesterday saying that he hit a financial bump and can't pay me all the child support. Long story short, he only paid me less than a 1/4 of what he should have. The kids and I live with my mom which he hates and FI and I were looking at places to move into can't now if ex plays these games. Well now I'm glad we are with my mom. He is screwing over his kids and he doesn't care. He took them on vaca last week, he is picking them up today it's his bday to take them out, but he can't support them the way he is ORDERED to. I know what he's doing, he knows the wedding is coming up and he is playing games to stop me from getting married. Or to at least make it VERY stressful and difficult. I seriously can NOT stand him. FI and I have to pay for the wedding ourselves. Now I have to figure out what to do and how to cut back. I'm thankful that I have money in savings to compensate for ex being a jerk, but it won't last long is he keeps this up. I am seeing my attorney tomorrow and I am hoping that I can do something very quickly.
Thank you for letting me vent.