My cousin is getting married in May, and I won't be able to attend. So, I wanted to chip in with my parents for his wedding gift. I asked him about their registry, and he told me that they don't have one.
How do you proceed? Should I just ask him what he and his future wife would like, or is no registry code for 'give money', or does it mean that they don't want gifts?
I'm not really sure how to ask him without it being very awkward. I'd likely say something stupid like, "so...you don't want gifts, then?" and sound like a prick.