I have been sooo fortunate to avoid most of the typical wedding drama until right now.
I have red and black hair, some piercings, 2 half sleeves, and my church has asked we cover our shoulders and offensive tattoos.
Not an issue at all. It works out great that a bolero jacket covers all of my tattoos and all of my bridesmaids tattoos that would be considered "offensive" to the church.
I was straight forward with the ladies involved in the wedding that our shoulders would have to be covered along with offensive tattoos and if they did not want to do that we would understand if they didnt want to stand with us at the church.
All was well. FSIL guilted me infront of all her family to be a bridesmaid and I reluctantly agreed knowing darn well it was going to be nothing but drama drama drama.
Well now here we are just a few short weeks out and she is stirring trouble and is "offended" that we want her to cover her Pagan, Wiccan, and Satanic symbols and that I asked her to be modest with alterations and didnt want her cleavage hanging out.
I gave the bridesmaids the options of finding their own jackets because they complained the one at the bridal shop were too expensive and now here we are and they havent found anything. So I am just going to the bridal store and buying the one I wanted to in the beginning. Even with the bolero, the dresses are still $75 under budget.
I am so fustrated with FSIL. I refuse to offend the Pastor of the church we go to because FSIL wants to be a jerk. The part that ticks me off is she was just in a good friend of mine's wedding and HAD ABSOLUTELY NO PROBLEM with the SAME RULES. I think when you have pagan, wiccan, and satanic symbols all over you, you make a commitment to cover them to be in a church to be respectful.
::end vent::
**edit terrible iphone spelling.