Congrats everyone!! I too am planning head. We just celebrated 5 wonderful years (dating) and have been engaged for about 2 years. This will be my second marriage, his first. Neither of us want a big affair and we can't really afford it. We are paying for this weeding completely and we have 5 kids (not all together ). My parents aren't in the picture right now as they strongly disagree with interracial relationships. He family will contribute minimally. So, we have been considering this for sometime.
We are doing it for real this time!!